Shishi Tianfu Middle School Etiquette Rules
I. Personal Appearance and Grooming
Clothing: Simple, elegant, and appropriate.
(1) Wearing the Shishi Tianfu Middle School uniform is a matter of pride for every student. Students should wear the uniform as required and always strictly demand themselves according to the standards of Shishi Tianfu students, consciously accepting supervision from classmates, teachers, parents, and society. It is the responsibility of every Shishi Tianfu Middle School student to bring honor to the school and add luster to the uniform.
(2) During school hours, students must wear the uniform as required. The school also encourages students to wear the uniform outside of school. Basic requirements for wearing the uniform: For zippered tops, the zipper should be pulled up to the position of the second button from the top; for buttoned clothes, all buttons except the first one should be fastened. Pants, skirts, and belts should be worn according to etiquette requirements.
(3) Without the school's permission, students shall not arbitrarily alter the style or length of the uniform. Keep the uniform clean and intact. It is strictly forbidden to scribble, write, or draw on the uniform. If the uniform is damaged, it should be repaired in time.
(4) Before the school provides unified socks and shoes, students should, under their parents' guidance, purchase socks and shoes that coordinate with the uniform. The school vigorously promotes the traditional virtues of hard work and thrift, does not advocate students wearing famous brands, and especially opposes students blindly chasing famous brands. For the healthy growth of students, Shishi Tianfu Middle School requires all students not to wear high-heeled shoes.
Hairstyle:
(1) Boys: Short hair or student-style hair. No perming, no dyeing, no strange hairstyles that do not conform to middle school students. The length standard for students' hair is: Ear hair should not exceed the upper edge of the auricle; hair at the back of the neck should not exceed the lower edge of the nape; the length should not exceed the middle line of the eyebrows and forehead hairline; students shall not shave their heads except for medical reasons or the need to treat diseases.
(2) Girls: Can have short or long hair. Short hair should be ear-length; long hair should not be loose on the shoulders, must be tied into a ponytail or braid. No dyeing (including highlighting), no perming, no "broken hair" or strange hairstyles. The bangs on the forehead must be above the eyebrows.
Except for performance needs, students shall not apply makeup, draw eyebrows, apply lipstick, pierce ears, wear earrings, studs, or ear sticks, keep long nails, or have painted or colored nails; no wearing accessories.
II. School Etiquette Rules
When participating in the flag-raising ceremony, maintain a dignified demeanor, stand at attention, and sing the national anthem. Use civilized language and behave appropriately.
When seeing a teacher, take the initiative to greet them and let the teacher go first. If you see a teacher carrying more things than yourself, actively help the teacher within your ability.
Students shall not enter or leave offices, meeting rooms, or other special classrooms without permission. When entering an office, knock on the door or call "report" first, and enter only after the teacher agrees. Do not rummage through office items without the teacher's permission.
Respect teachers. Take the initiative to greet teachers when you see them. Take teachers' criticism and education seriously. If you think the teacher's understanding of the situation is inconsistent with the facts or you think the teacher is unfair in handling problems, patiently explain to the teacher and sincerely express your opinions. At the same time, you can reflect your situation to the relevant school departments. Adopt the attitude of "correct if you have it, encourage if you don't", humbly accept criticism, and never allow making a scene or contradicting teachers.
Get along with classmates with mutual acceptance, respect, unity, friendship, and mutual help. All students should communicate equally, prohibit bullying the weak. Every student should humbly learn from others' strengths and advantages in communication with classmates, and oppose the "street habits" of "judging people by their appearance" and "judging heroes by their origin"; do not spread classmates' privacy at will, do not spread rumors, do not casually give classmates "nicknames", do not force classmates to do things they are unwilling to do; if you do something that harms classmates' interests or affects classmates' friendship, you should dare to take responsibility and sincerely apologize.
Establish correct environmental awareness and public morality awareness, and develop good civilized habits. Eat in the cafeteria in an orderly manner, do not waste food. Students shall not chase and make noise, or speak loudly in any place on campus. Walk softly, slowly, and on the right side in corridors and stairs. Cherish public health, do not spit everywhere, do not litter peel and debris, strictly prohibit stepping on lawns, seats, or picking flowers and trees.
III. Family Etiquette Requirements
Understand your parents, especially the hard work they have put into you and your family. Treat your parents and relatives with gratitude, and repay your parents' upbringing and family love with your actual actions of respecting your parents and caring for your loved ones. Strive to do your own things, help with your parents' things, and do household chores together. Try to improve your self-care ability so that your parents worry less about your life.
Care for your parents. Remember the birthdays and other important anniversaries of your parents and other family members, and send your greetings and blessings on these special days.
Take the initiative to report your study and ideological situation to your parents so that they understand your growth process. Actively seek guidance and help from your parents. When you have differences of opinion with your parents, patiently explain and communicate well. When you achieve success, share the joy with your parents; when you encounter setbacks and difficulties, remember that your parents are your first teachers, and they will selflessly help you. Under no circumstances should you lose your temper with your parents and family, as this will make them very sad.
Do not take your parents' care and love for granted. Learn to say "thank you" when your parents bring you delicious meals, wash fruits, or hand you beautiful clothes! Even if the meals do not suit your taste or the things you bought are not to your liking, you should learn to "accept happily", which is a reward for their care.
Live frugally, do not spend money randomly, and do not blindly compare. Discuss with your parents when buying study and daily necessities, and strive for their understanding and support. Students shall not make improper requests to their parents that exceed basic needs or unreasonable requests that exceed the family's affordability.
Take the initiative to greet your parents and family when leaving home and returning home. When going out, explain the reason and destination to your parents. Do not go out without your parents' permission, do not enter internet cafes, game halls, and other inappropriate places, and do not stay out overnight.
When your parents or elders are sick, you should show more concern and greetings, and take good care of them; brothers and sisters should care for each other, love each other, and learn to be humble.
When guests visit, stand up to welcome them, greet them warmly, offer seats and tea; do not interrupt casually when guests talk with your parents; when guests leave, see them off and say goodbye politely.
Knock on the door before entering others' rooms, and enter only after obtaining permission. Do not touch others' things without permission.